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philos

φίλος

GreekG5384friend

Appears 29 times · tap a cell to see the verses

Mat 11:19Luk 7:6Luk 7:34Luk 11:5 (2×)Luk 11:6Luk 11:8Luk 12:4Luk 14:10Luk 14:12Luk 15:6Luk 15:9Luk 15:29Luk 16:9Luk 21:16Luk 23:12Jhn 3:29Jhn 11:11Jhn 15:13Jhn 15:14Jhn 15:15Jhn 19:12Act 10:24Act 19:31Act 27:3Jas 2:23Jas 4:43Jn 1:15(14) (2×)
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Word studyResearch-gradeFEE-losadjective

What philos means

a friend: someone joined to another by chosen affection, loyalty, or shared allegiance rather than by blood.

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In the ancient world a friend was not a casual acquaintance. To be someone's friend was a recognized bond that often carried real obligations: friends were expected

  • to share what they had
  • to speak honestly to one another
  • to stand by each other.

The same word could name a close personal companion, a political ally, a member of a ruler's inner circle, or anyone publicly identified with a particular person or cause.

This is why the word turns up at charged moments in the New Testament rather than in passing.

  • It marks the disciples' new standing when Jesus stops calling them servants and calls them friends.
  • It marks the accusation thrown at Jesus, that he is a friend of tax collectors and sinners.
  • It marks the deadly pressure on Pilate, who could not release Jesus without ceasing to be a friend of Caesar.
  • And it draws the sharpest line of all in James: a person is either a friend of God or a friend of the world, and cannot be both.

Running underneath every use is the same core idea: a chosen bond of loyalty and affection that ties two parties together and shows where a person's allegiance lies. Whether the friend is an intimate, an official, or God himself, to name someone a friend is to say something about who belongs with whom.

Nuances

1aa close personal companion: someone you know, trust, and share life with.
Luk 7:6Luk 11:5 (2×)Luk 11:6Luk 11:8Luk 14:10Luk 14:12Luk 15:6Luk 15:9Luk 15:29Luk 16:9Luk 21:16Jhn 11:11
1btwo parties on friendly terms: allies or officials joined by goodwill and mutual standing rather than close personal intimacy.
Luk 23:12Act 19:31
1ca friend of Caesar: a recognized standing of loyalty to the emperor, close to a formal title in the Roman order.
Jhn 19:12
1dthe friend of the bridegroom: the groom's trusted attendant, who arranges the wedding and rejoices in it without competing for the bride.
Jhn 3:29
1eone publicly identified with a particular group or person; an associate or partisan of them.
Mat 11:19Luk 7:34
1fthose Jesus draws into an intimate, trusting bond with himself: no longer servants kept at a distance but friends let in on what he is doing.
Luk 12:4Jhn 15:13Jhn 15:14Jhn 15:15
Jhn 15:15

What kind of friendship Jesus establishes when he calls the disciples his friends in John 15:13-15.

  • majorityA reworking of the classical ideal of friendship together with the Hebrew picture of Abraham and Moses as friends of God: a bond marked by open sharing and self-giving that Jesus himself initiates rather than negotiates between equals.; Raymond E. Brown, The Gospel According to John XIII-XXI (AB 29A; Doubleday, 1970); Craig S. Keener, The Gospel of John: A Commentary (Baker Academic, 2003); Marianne Meye Thompson, John (NTL; Westminster John Knox, 2015)
  • minorityMutual friendship on the classical ideal, a reciprocal bond between friends marked by frank, open speech.; Gail R. O'Day, "Jesus as Friend in the Gospel of John," Interpretation 58/2 (2004): 144-157; Klaus Scholtissek, In ihm sein und bleiben (HBS 21; Herder, 2000)
  • minorityA patron's bond with his dependents: an unequal relationship of loyal subordination in which the greater one lays down his life for those under him.; Daniel K. Eng, "'I Call You Friends': Jesus as Patron in John 15," Themelios 46/1 (2021)
1gfriendship as allegiance and shared values, so that being a friend of one side means being set against the other.
Jas 2:23Jas 4:4

What scholars say about philos

The lexica converge on a wide semantic range while diverging on a few debated points. BDAG distinguishes the adjectival "dear," the substantival "friend," the technical philos tou Kaisaros (with reference to Bammel), the philos theou versus philos tou kosmou antithesis in James, and the greeting formula hoi philoi (with reference to Malherbe on Acts 27:3 and 3 John 15). Louw-Nida place the noun in the domain of Association and the verb phileo in the domain of Attitudes and Emotions, deliberately declining to rank phileo below agapao. Stahlin's TDNT article remains the fullest treatment and is sympathetic to hoi philoi as an early Christian technical term in Lukan and Johannine circles; Spicq's Theological Lexicon is distinctive for its papyrological and epigraphic evidence and is cautiously sympathetic to Malherbe, while EDNT is more skeptical of a technical Christian sense. The extra-biblical background is double: a moral-philosophical tradition (Aristotle's analysis of friendship into utility, pleasure, and virtue, and the commonplaces that a friend is another self and that friends hold all things in common) and an institutional one (the Ptolemaic, Seleucid, and Roman use of "friends of the king" as a graded court rank, well attested in the books of Maccabees and in inscriptions). The title of Abraham as friend of God at James 2:23 does not derive from a single Septuagint verse (Isaiah 41:8 and 2 Chronicles 20:7 use the language of being loved, not the noun "friend") but from a diffused Second Temple tradition seen in Jubilees, the Damascus Document, Philo, and Wisdom, as Allison argues. Mitchell reads Luke's community-of-goods summaries as a deliberate deployment of the classical friendship commonplaces with reciprocity suspended, and Johnson reads James 4:4 as the Aristotelian axiom that friendship requires shared values pressed into an either/or of allegiance. The old distinction, traceable to Trench, that agapao names a higher, willed love and phileo a lesser affection has been decisively rejected by Barr, Carson, and Silva on the evidence that John uses the two verbs interchangeably (the Father loves the Son with both; Lazarus and the Beloved Disciple are loved with both), so the alternation in John 21 is stylistic variation rather than a lexical hierarchy.

In-depth research

This is a research paper, so it may be hard to read without scholarly background. It is useful if you want to dig even deeper into this word.

Sources

  • BDAG, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament, s.v. φίλοςlexicon
  • Gustav Stahlin, "φίλος, φίλη, φιλία," Theological Dictionary of the New Testament IX (Eerdmans, 1974), 146-171dictionary
  • Ceslas Spicq, Theological Lexicon of the New Testament (Hendrickson, 1994), s.v. φίλοςlexicon
  • Louw and Nida, Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament Based on Semantic Domains (UBS, 1988)lexicon
  • David Konstan, Friendship in the Classical World (Cambridge University Press, 1997)monograph
  • Alan C. Mitchell, "The Social Function of Friendship in Acts 2:44-47 and 4:32-37," JBL 111 (1992): 255-272article
  • Luke Timothy Johnson, "Friendship with the World and Friendship with God: A Study of Discipleship in James," in Discipleship in the New Testament (Fortress, 1985), 166-183article
  • Gail R. O'Day, "Jesus as Friend in the Gospel of John," Interpretation 58/2 (2004): 144-157article
  • Ernst Bammel, "φίλος τοῦ Καίσαρος," Theologische Literaturzeitung 77 (1952): 205-210article
  • Dale C. Allison, James (ICC; T&T Clark, 2013)commentary
  • D. A. Carson, Exegetical Fallacies, 2nd ed. (Baker, 1996), 51-53monograph

All attested forms of φίλος

accusative m p

φίλους

Luk 7:6, Luk 14:12, Luk 15:6, Luk 16:9, Jhn 15:15, Act 10:24, Act 27:3, 3Jn 1:15

nominative m s

φίλος

Mat 11:19, Luk 7:34, Luk 11:6, Jhn 3:29, Jhn 11:11, Jhn 19:12, Jas 2:23, Jas 4:4

nominative m p

φίλοι

Luk 23:12, Jhn 15:14, Act 19:31, 3Jn 1:15

genitive m p

φίλων

Luk 15:29, Luk 21:16, Jhn 15:13

accusative m s

φίλον

Luk 11:5, Luk 11:8

vocative m s

φίλε

Luk 11:5, Luk 14:10

accusative f p

φίλας

Luk 15:9

dative m p

φίλοις

Luk 12:4