quarrels, always in the plural: bickering that keeps going, and so the settled habit of a person who is always fighting.
This word turns up only in Proverbs, and it is always plural. Both facts shape it. Hebrew has an ordinary singular word for a quarrel (מָדוֹן), one flare-up that starts and can be quieted; this one names quarrels in the plural, the running friction that grinds away at a house or a street rather than a single fight.
Four of the ten verses treat those quarrels as things that happen and can be dealt with:
- a troublemaker with twisted plans lets them loose wherever he goes
- casting lots settles them when two strong parties are deadlocked
- they stand between an offended brother and reconciliation like the barred gates of a fortress
- the man who lingers over wine wakes up with them, along with the bruises
The other six do something English cannot do as neatly. Rather than calling a person quarrelsome, Hebrew names the person after what she or he produces: literally "a woman of quarrels," or "a man of quarrels." Proverbs uses that phrase for a spouse in three nearly identical sayings (better a corner of the roof, or the bare wilderness, than a shared house) and once for the man whose arrival lights a fight the way charcoal lights coals.
What Proverbs keeps picturing is not violence but wear. Twice the quarreling is a roof that leaks all day in the rain: never a catastrophe, never over. That is what sets this word apart from the word for the dispute itself (רִיב), which names a grievance one party presses against another and can in principle be argued out and closed.