to lean on someone: to rest your weight against a person you are close to and walk beside.
This verb appears exactly once in the whole Bible, in the last chapter of the Song of Songs, where a watching voice asks who this is coming up out of the wilderness, leaning on her beloved (Song of Songs 8:5). There is no second verse to compare, so everything we know about the word has to be pieced together from Hebrew's relatives and from the oldest translations.
Those witnesses agree on the picture. The Greek, Latin, and Syriac translators all read it as leaning or resting on someone for support, and every major dictionary of biblical Hebrew glosses it the same way. What the neighboring languages add is why the word means that. In Arabic, one root covers a whole cluster of connected ideas: the elbow, the cushion you prop it on, the comfort of being propped that way, and the companion at whose side you travel. In Ethiopic the matching verb described reclining on the elbow at a meal. So the word starts from a body part and ends up naming a relationship.
Hebrew has plainer words for the mechanics of holding something up, which is what makes this one worth noticing:
- שָׁעַן is the everyday word for leaning on something, and it usually carries the idea of relying or trusting, often misplaced trust.
- סָמַךְ is the general word for propping something up or holding it steady.
- דָּבַק is clinging, sticking fast to another person or thing.
This word sits among them without being any of them. The woman is held up, and she is also tucked in close, at his elbow, in his company, where everyone coming out to look can see it.
The word then goes quiet for centuries. It is missing from the Dead Sea Scrolls and from the Hebrew of Sirach, and when it resurfaces in rabbinic Hebrew it is mostly the ordinary noun for "elbow," with the verb reused in the warmer sense of showing someone affection. That long silence is part of why scholars still argue about whether this is a late loan from Aramaic or simply an old, rare Hebrew word that happened to survive in one poem.
Disputed
How warm the gesture is: whether the verb describes companionable physical support, or carries a tenderness closer to nestling and clinging.
- majorityThe verb names companionable dependence: the woman steadies herself on her beloved and walks at his side. Any erotic charge in Song of Songs 8:5 comes from the surrounding lines, not from this word.; Roland E. Murphy, The Song of Songs (Hermeneia, 1990), 191; Tremper Longman III, Song of Songs (NICOT, 2001), 205-207; Richard S. Hess, Song of Songs (Baker Commentary on the Old Testament Wisdom and Psalms, 2005), 235-237; Marvin H. Pope, Song of Songs (Anchor Bible 7C, 1977), 663-664; Duane Garrett, Song of Songs (Word Biblical Commentary 23B, 2004), 253-255
- minorityThe same gloss should be pictured intimately: the woman is nestling against her beloved, the posture shown in Egyptian and Syrian reliefs of couples walking with the woman pressed to the man's side, and the affectionate coloring is native to the root rather than borrowed from the context.; Othmar Keel, The Song of Songs (Continental Commentaries, 1994; German 1986), 267-269; Yair Zakovitch, Das Hohelied (Herders Theologischer Kommentar zum Alten Testament, 2004), s.v. Cant 8:5; Gianni Barbiero, Song of Songs: A Close Reading (Vetus Testamentum Supplements 144, 2011), 442-447; Marcus Jastrow, A Dictionary of the Targumim, the Talmud Babli and Yerushalmi, and the Midrashic Literature, s.v. רפק