a wedding: the occasion on which a marriage is made and celebrated
This word appears exactly once in the whole Hebrew Bible. In the Song of Songs the young women of Jerusalem are called out to look at King Solomon wearing the crown his mother set on him "on the day of his wedding, on the day of the gladness of his heart." Everything we can say about the word therefore rests on that single line together with its close relatives.
Those relatives are what give it depth. The family of words it belongs to is about becoming related by marriage rather than about ceremony: the same family supplies Hebrew's word for a bridegroom or a daughter's husband (חָתָן), its word for a relative made by marriage such as a father-in-law (חֹתֵן), and its verb for two families allying themselves by marrying into each other. So a wedding, in this word, is the moment two households become kin, and not simply a couple's celebration.
Because the word is tied here to a day, and the line beside it calls that same day the day of a glad heart, translators almost always render it "wedding day." An Israelite wedding, though, was less a single service than a sequence:
- a binding agreement between the two families, with a payment made for the bride,
- the bride brought in procession from her father's house to the groom's,
- days of feasting (מִשְׁתֶּה) that ended with the couple led to the bridal chamber (חֻפָּה).
This word names none of those stages on its own. It names the whole occasion by which the marriage is made.
How the royal setting of Song of Songs 3:11 is to be understood: whether the crowned bridegroom is King Solomon himself, an ordinary bridegroom poetically cast as Solomon, or a figure drawn from royal ceremony. No commentator treats the verse as a documentary report of a historical Solomonic wedding, since 1 Kings 1 records no wedding and no crowning by the king's mother.
- majorityA royal fiction: the ordinary bridegroom and bride of the Song are imaginatively costumed as King Solomon and his queen, a convention with close parallels in Egyptian love poetry.; Michael V. Fox, The Song of Songs and the Ancient Egyptian Love Songs (University of Wisconsin Press, 1985); Roland E. Murphy, The Song of Songs, Hermeneia (Fortress, 1990); Othmar Keel, The Song of Songs, Continental Commentary (Fortress, 1994); Duane Garrett, Song of Songs, Word Biblical Commentary 23B (Nelson, 2004); Gianni Barbiero, Song of Songs: A Close Reading (Brill, 2011); J. Cheryl Exum, "Seeing Solomon's Palanquin (Song of Songs 3:6-11)," Biblical Interpretation 11 (2003)
- minorityA deliberate symbolic use of royal imagery rather than mere costume: the Solomonic frame carries a theological and royal ideology that the poem means its readers to hear.; Nina-Sophie Heereman, "Behold King Solomon on the Day of His Wedding": A Symbolic-Diachronic Reading of Song 3:6-11 and 4:12-5:1 (2021)
- minorityAn ironic reading: the picture of a king crowned by his mother is faintly mocking, and the Solomon figure of the Song is treated with ambivalence rather than admiration.; Annette Schellenberg, Vetus Testamentum 70 (2020); Yair Zakovitch, The Song of Songs: Riddle of Riddles (2018)
Disputed
What lies at the heart of the word family this noun is built on, and therefore how deeply the noun should be defined. The question is the prehistory of the root, not the meaning of the noun in Song of Songs 3:11, which is agreed. The root supplies both "son-in-law, bridegroom" and "father-in-law" in Hebrew, while its Arabic counterpart means "to circumcise."
- majorityAffinity is primary: the root's basic sense is relationship created by marriage, the sense most widely attested across the Semitic languages, so the abstract noun denotes the forming of the marriage alliance, that is, the wedding. The Arabic "circumcise" sense is a secondary, localized development.; T. C. Mitchell, "The Meaning of the Noun Ḥtn in the Old Testament," Vetus Testamentum 19 (1969): 93-112; William H. C. Propp, "That Bloody Bridegroom (Exodus iv 24-6)," Vetus Testamentum 43 (1993): 495-518; Ernst Kutsch, "חתן," in Theologisches Wörterbuch zum Alten Testament (TWAT); Leonid Kogan, Genealogical Classification of Semitic (De Gruyter, 2015)
- minorityCircumcision is primary: the Arabic sense preserves an archaic meaning, circumcision was originally a rite performed before marriage, and "bridegroom" is derived from it. This older reconstruction goes back to Wellhausen and rests chiefly on the obscure night episode in Exodus 4:24-26, where the phrase "bridegroom of blood" is used of a circumcision.; Julian Morgenstern, "The 'Bloody Husband' (?) (Exod. 4:24-26) Once Again," Hebrew Union College Annual 34 (1963): 35-70