to grind: to work grain or some other hard thing between stones until it is reduced to flour or dust
Grinding was the most ordinary work in an Israelite household, and one of the heaviest. Every day someone knelt over a pair of stones and pushed the upper one back and forth across the lower until there was enough flour for that day's bread. There was no getting ahead of it. The job fell to women and to slaves, and the steady rasp of the stones was the sound of a house that still had people and food in it.
That everyday picture is why the word lands so hard wherever the Bible reaches for it:
- Samson, blinded and shackled, is put to grinding in a Philistine prison
- proud Babylon is told to pick up the handmill (רֵחֶה) and grind flour like a slave girl
- Job, swearing he has done no wrong, can name no worse fate for himself than his wife grinding for another man
What stings in each scene is not the work by itself but the fall into it. The same is true in reverse in Ecclesiastes, where the women at the mill stop because there are too few of them left, one line in a long picture of a body and a household winding down.
The verb also covers grinding a thing rather than grain, and there it means destruction. Moses burns the golden calf and then grinds it down until there is nothing left that anyone could bow to. And once the word is turned on people themselves, when God charges Israel's leaders with grinding the faces of the poor, treating human beings the way a mill treats wheat.
Nuances
Whether the grinding Job names for his wife is only menial labor in another man's household, or is itself a veiled way of speaking about sexual use.
- contestedThe verb keeps its ordinary sense of milling, so the line pictures the wife reduced to a slave at another man's mill; the explicitly sexual humiliation belongs to the parallel line about other men bowing over her.; BDB, s.v. טחן; S. R. Driver and G. B. Gray, A Critical and Exegetical Commentary on the Book of Job, ICC (1921)
- contestedThe verb functions euphemistically here, in step with the sexual parallel line and with the later Jewish reading of grinding language in the Samson narrative.; Marvin H. Pope, Job, Anchor Bible 15, 3rd ed. (1973); David J. A. Clines, Job 21-37, Word Biblical Commentary 18A (2006)