submission: taking one's assigned place under another within an ordered relationship
The word pictures a person set in place within an order, the way a soldier is assigned a position in the ranks or a member is given a standing in a household. Ancient writers were careful to say it is not the same as being enslaved or crushed: a subject people could accept its place under a ruler without becoming slaves. At heart the word describes yielding oneself to a recognized arrangement, and it very often carries the note of doing so willingly rather than being forced.
What the word means in any given verse depends heavily on what a person submits to. When the object is the gospel, it comes close to glad obedience: Gentile believers show the reality of their faith by aligning themselves under the message they have confessed. When the object is a person or a demand, it names relational submission, which Paul could praise or flatly refuse depending on whether the demand was legitimate. In a household or a congregation it names the settled place children or learners take under a recognized authority.
English has no single word that covers all of this, so translators rotate among submission, subjection, and obedience. Each choice lights up one part of the idea and hides another. Modern ears often hear submission as defeat or servility, but the word itself carries the calmer sense of accepting one's place within a settled order, a place that can be entered freely and held with dignity.
Nuances
The referent of the woman's submission, which the verse leaves unstated, and whether the instruction grounds a permanent principle or addresses a local situation.
- contestedThe submission is to the male teaching authority of the assembled church (its elders or teaching men), grounded in the creation order named in the following verse and therefore held to express a lasting principle.; George W. Knight III, The Pastoral Epistles (NIGTC), 138-41; William D. Mounce, Pastoral Epistles (WBC), 118-22; Thomas R. Schreiner, in Kostenberger and Schreiner, Women in the Church, 3rd ed., 175-88
- contestedThe submission is a learner's posture toward sound apostolic teaching (or toward God and the gospel, which would apply to men as well), addressed to a specific crisis of false teaching among certain Ephesian women rather than laying down a universal rule.; I. Howard Marshall, The Pastoral Epistles (ICC), 452-60; Philip H. Towner, The Letters to Timothy and Titus (NICNT), 213-32; Cynthia Long Westfall, Paul and Gender, 286-312; Philip B. Payne, Man and Woman, One in Christ, 314-37
Disputed
Whether the submission this word names is by nature one-directional, always owed upward to an authority, or whether it can also be mutual and cooperative, with the direction and character of the relation set by context.
- majorityThe word expresses placement within an ordered relation, but whether that order is coerced or willing, one-directional or reciprocal, is determined by the context rather than fixed by the word itself.; Gerhard Delling, TDNT, vol. 8, 39-46; BDAG, 3rd ed., s.v. hupotage and hupotasso, 1042; Moises Silva, NIDNTTE, vol. 4, 466-72
- minorityThe word always implies submission to an authority and is never reciprocal in force; the relation it names is intrinsically one-directional.; Wayne Grudem, Evangelical Feminism and Biblical Truth, 188-211; Harold W. Hoehner, Ephesians: An Exegetical Commentary, 715-20