hard: rough and unyielding, with no give in it, whether a person, a word, or a wind
In everyday Greek this was the ordinary word for something hard to the touch: baked ground, a stiff bed, bread gone stale. What it names is the absence of give. Push against it and it does not move, and you are the one who gets hurt.
The New Testament never uses it of an object you can pick up. Every time, it describes something that meets a person roughly and will not soften:
- a master who is exacting and makes no allowances (Matthew 25:24)
- words that grate on the people who hear them (John 6:60 and Jude 1:15)
- winds that drive a ship wherever they please (James 3:4)
- an effort that only injures the one making it (Acts 26:14)
That last one is a proverb older than the New Testament and common in Greek poetry and drama: an ox that kicks back at the sharpened stick behind it only drives the point deeper into its own leg.
The rest of this word family drifted in one direction. The verb "to harden" (σκληρύνω) and the noun for hardness of heart (σκληροκαρδία) are almost always about people who will not respond to God. The adjective itself stayed general. It is just as happy describing a demanding employer or a gale at sea as a stubborn will, which is why the parable in Luke can swap in a near neighbor of it, "exacting" (αὐστηρός), without changing the picture.