gentle, meek: a humble, non-self-asserting manner toward others that rests on trust in God rather than on force
This is the headword of a small word-family the New Testament uses for one quality: the adjective (the person who is gentle) and its abstract noun (the gentleness itself). It does not mean weak, spineless, or timid. It names a settled humility that leans on God instead of on getting its own way, and that therefore treats other people kindly rather than harshly, even when wronged.
The word is most at home describing someone who actually has power, or a reason to retaliate, and chooses not to use it cruelly. The New Testament reaches for it to portray:
- Jesus inviting the weary to himself
- the king riding in on a donkey instead of a warhorse
- an apostle deciding whether to come with a rod or in gentleness
- a teacher correcting opponents without crushing them
- believers bearing with one another
It is named among the things God's Spirit grows in a person.
Its weight comes from the Greek Old Testament, where translators repeatedly used this family of words for the humble and afflicted faithful who put their hope in God. So the gentleness in view is not a mild personality type but a God-trusting disposition, and the same word can name the humble, lowly people themselves, who are promised the earth.