to leave someone entirely alone: to strip a person of the family and support they lived on, so that no one is left to depend on
This verb is built straight off the ordinary Greek word for "alone, only" (μόνος), and it means to make someone alone. In practice it almost always appears in the form that describes what has been done TO a person rather than what that person does, so its working sense is "left all alone, cut off, bereft." Greek writers had used it that way for centuries before the New Testament:
- a fighter cut off among his enemies with no one at his side
- a husband left bereft of the wife he had lost
- an army deserted by the allies it had counted on
What holds those pictures together is loss, not solitude by choice. The word does not describe a person who happens to be by themselves for an evening. It describes someone whose people are gone, and with them the protection and the income those people provided. Used with a second word it can even name exactly what has been taken away: cut off from help, deprived of allies.
The New Testament uses it once, in 1 Timothy 5:5, of the widow who is "truly a widow and left all alone." The form Paul chooses describes a settled condition rather than a single past moment: this is not something that happened to her once but the situation she now lives in. In its setting the point is concrete and financial. The widow of the previous verse still has children or grandchildren who can support her, so the church is not her first resort. This widow has no one: no husband, no children, no grandchildren, no kin. That is what makes her need genuine.
The famous turn in the verse follows immediately: emptied of every human support, she "has set her hope on God" and prays night and day. But that hope belongs to the next words, not to this one. This word does the hard, plain work of saying she has nobody left.
Whether "left all alone" defines what makes a widow a real widow, or adds a second quality on top of being a widow.
- majorityThe word spells out the previous phrase: a real widow, that is, one who has been left with no family to support her. On this reading the isolation is the definition of genuine need, which is why the church takes her on.; I. Howard Marshall, The Pastoral Epistles (ICC; Edinburgh: T&T Clark, 1999), pp. 586-87; Jürgen Roloff, Der erste Brief an Timotheus (EKK 15), p. 289; John M. G. Barclay, "Household Networks and Early Christian Economics: A Fresh Study of 1 Timothy 5.3-16," New Testament Studies 66 (2020): 268-287
- minorityThe two descriptions are coordinate: she is both truly a widow and also one left alone, two things said of the same woman rather than one explaining the other.; Daniel B. Wallace, Greek Grammar Beyond the Basics (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1996)