to have a real part in something held in common: to take your share of it, or to count as one of those who hold it
This verb is built from the everyday Greek word for "to have" with a prefix meaning "along with". At root it says: to have something along with other people. In use it reports a plain fact about who holds what. A person does not stand beside the thing, looking on. He holds a genuine part of it, and so do others.
That one idea stretches across four kinds of holding in the New Testament:
- a worker's rightful claim on a share of what his labor has earned
- a portion of food and drink taken from a table already set out
- the flesh and blood the Son came to hold in common with the children
- bare membership, that a man came from one tribe rather than another
The last of those looks like a different word in English, since translations say "belonged to another tribe". But it is the same picture: to hold a place among those who make up that tribe.
The nearest relative is another Greek verb for sharing (κοινωνέω), and Hebrews 2:14 sets the two side by side in a single sentence. That verb keeps the bond between the sharers in view, so it can even run the other direction, toward giving someone a share of what is yours. This word keeps the shared thing itself in view: what matters is that you hold a part of it. A third relative, the verb for receiving a portion (μεταλαμβάνω), names the moment the portion comes to you rather than the fact of holding it. And the noun built on this verb (μέτοχος) names the person who holds the share, the partner.
Paul leans hard on the word in 1 Corinthians 10. Many people eating from one loaf are one body, because each holds a part of that one loaf. And a person cannot take his share at the Lord's table and at the table of demons, because holding a share of something ties him to it. The argument only works because the word means an actual stake, not a gesture.
Nuances
Whether the change of verb in Hebrews 2:14, from the word used of the children who share flesh and blood to this word used of the Son who took the same, marks a real difference in how each party holds human nature.
- majorityThe two verbs are used interchangeably here, and both say that the Son came to hold the same human nature as the children.; Harold W. Attridge, The Epistle to the Hebrews (Hermeneia), on 2:14; William L. Lane, Hebrews 1-8 (Word Biblical Commentary 47A), on 2:14
- minorityThe change is deliberate: the children hold flesh and blood as their own by birth, while the Son took hold of a nature that was not originally his.; B. F. Westcott, The Epistle to the Hebrews, on 2:14