a royal headband: the cloth band tied around a king's head as the badge of his sovereignty.
A diadem was not a crown of gold or leaves but a strip of white cloth, usually linen or silk, tied around the head with the knot at the back and the two ends left hanging down the neck. It could be dyed purple, embroidered, or set with jewels, but its basic form was a ribbon. It hardened into the jeweled metal band of later art only centuries after the New Testament was written.
What gave the word its weight was not the object but what wearing it claimed. Ever since Alexander the Great took it over from the Persian kings, this band was the recognized emblem of royalty across the Greek-speaking world: to put it on was, in effect, the ceremony of becoming king. In Rome the same band was politically dangerous, since Roman rulers were careful not to look like eastern monarchs. Julius Caesar famously pushed it away when it was offered to him, and the emperors of the New Testament era did not wear one. So the word carried the charge of absolute, sovereign kingship, the very thing Rome publicly refused to claim.
This is why the word appears only in Revelation, and only on figures who claim to rule the world. The dragon wears seven of these bands, the beast wears ten, and the risen Christ wears many that no one counts. In each case the point is the same: a claim to be king. The book uses the mounting numbers to argue that the dragon and the beast wear royal bands they have no right to, while Christ wears more than can be counted because the kingship is truly his.