to be ashamed; to be put to shame: to feel disgrace, or to be publicly exposed as having trusted or hoped wrongly
In the New Testament this Greek verb almost always appears in the form that means being ashamed, not actively shaming someone else. The work of shaming another person is done by a related, stronger verb (καταισχύνω). The word's history runs from the ugly to the shameful: in the oldest Greek poetry it meant to disfigure or mar a face, then widened to mean disgrace and the felt loss of standing.
The single most important thing to grasp is that its shame is usually public, not merely a private feeling. To be shamed is to be exposed, shown up as having trusted in the wrong thing. The Greek Old Testament had already loaded the word this way, using it to translate the main Hebrew word for coming to shame (בּוֹשׁ) and forming the great promise that the one who trusts in the Lord "will not be put to shame."
In the New Testament the verb divides along one clear line:
- Once (Luke 16:3) it is ordinary social embarrassment, a manager who cannot face the disgrace of begging.
- In the other four places it looks ahead to God's final verdict: Paul is confident he "will not be put to shame," and John warns that some will shrink back in shame from Christ when he appears.
The difference is not really two meanings but a shift in who is watching and when. The one before whom a person is or is not ashamed has moved from the surrounding society to God, and the moment has moved from the present to the end. A close relative, ἐπαισχύνομαι, adds the note of disowning: being ashamed of someone and so refusing to stand with them.
Nuances
Disputed
How much of the word's theological weight belongs to the lexeme itself and how much to the collocations in which it stands.
- majorityIn biblical usage the word is predominantly objective and forensic: to be shamed is to be publicly exposed as having trusted wrongly, more than it is a subjective state of soul.; Rudolf Bultmann, "αἰσχύνω κτλ.," TDNT 1:189
- minorityThe lexeme means simply to be ashamed; its theological force rides on syntagmatic collocations (ashamed "of the gospel," hope that "does not put to shame"), not on the word itself.; Moisés Silva, NIDNTTE 1:203-7, s.v. αἰσχύνω
- minorityShame here is defined by the gaze of others within an honor-based Mediterranean culture; that social frame, rather than an existential one, best explains the word.; Ceslas Spicq, TLNT 1:41-47, s.v. αἰσχύνη