to betroth: to complete the binding first step of marriage by paying the bride-price, pledging a woman as wife before the couple begins living together
This is a single, precise word from the world of marriage law. To betroth was not to get engaged in the modern sense but to complete the binding first step of marriage: a man paid the bride-price and the woman became his pledged wife, even though the two did not yet live together. Marriage in ancient Israel happened in two moves, and this word names the first; a second word, taking (לָקַח) a wife, names the second, when the groom brought her into his home. Deuteronomy 20:7 sets the two side by side, describing a man who has betrothed a wife but not yet taken her.
Because the bond was already legally real, the betrothed woman was treated as a wife. The law in Deuteronomy 22 calls a betrothed woman who sleeps with another man an adulteress, punishable like a married wife, and David could later reclaim Michal simply on the ground that he had betrothed her with the price he paid. It was the bride-price, not the wedding night, that made the bond binding.
Hosea takes this hard-edged legal word and turns it into a picture of grace. Three times God says, "I will betroth you to me," promising to bind Israel to himself as a groom pledges a bride, and to bring as his bride-price qualities like righteousness, justice, love, mercy, and faithfulness. The choice of word matters. Because a wife who had been divorced and married to another could not simply be taken back, God does not speak of remarrying Israel but of betrothing her fresh, as though the relationship were beginning again from the start.
Nuances
Whether the qualities God brings to the betrothal in Hosea 2:19 (righteousness, justice, love, mercy) are the bride-price he pays or descriptions of the renewed relationship.
- majorityThey are the bride-price God pays to seal the betrothal, matching the price-language that governs this verb elsewhere, such as David's hundred foreskins for Michal.; A. A. Macintosh, Hosea (ICC, 1997), p. xcv; Francis I. Andersen and David Noel Freedman, Hosea (Anchor Bible 24, 1980), pp. 278-279
- minorityThey are covenant qualities that characterize the whole renewed relationship rather than a bride-price in the strict sense.; Hans Walter Wolff, Hosea (Hermeneia, 1974); Ehud Ben Zvi, Hosea (FOTL XXIA/1, 2005)